Monday, November 21, 2011

what life question would you most like to have answered

how are you different from the people around you

what do you most enjoy about being a woman

how are you different from the people around you and why

what would you be most upset about people thinking about you and why

What would upset me the most was if people thought I was selfish.   Maybe its my own guilt/insecurity makes me wonder this at times, but I'd really hate for it to be true.  I like to see myself as a giving and helpful person, but if other saw it as something else, it would upset me.  I do, do things for myself, sometimes before others, but I feel that if you don't sometimes, you miss out and others can take advantage.   Now that has happened to me a lot over the years, but as I get older, I have realised this and am not going to be a doormat for anyone.  So I don't really see this as being selfish if others did.

when did you first fall in love and what do you remember about the person and the feeling

what new technologies have been developed in your lifetime and how quickly were you to adopt them

how did your family celebrate the holidays when you were young

Christmas time was always a big family get together for both sides of the family.    The Cornthwaite's was always a big occasion with Dad's sisters and the their family's and Uncle Scott and his.  We always has a Santa too.  The big question for us kids was to guess who it was that year first!

Auntie Wendy's was a great food extravaganza as usual dinner things were with her, endless nibbles and quite often not getting to eat the main meal until very late and dessert was invariably after midnight!   I remember one year my cousins tricked me into green olives saying they were nicer than the black ones, oh no, they weren't!!  However, I do like olives now.    I also remember at their house reading the boys Tin Tin and Astrix books in french (well, pretending that I could!)

does the way you allocate your time match your priorities

what are your favourite indulgences

if you have stayed in hospital what do you remember about it

what have you accomplished in the past five years

how will the world remember your generation

as a child how did you get in trouble with your parents

what were your most favourite things to play with as a child

what books have impacted you the most

what were the three favourite years of your life and whay

what are the most important things you'd like to do

what cars have you owned and what was your favourite

what do you do that would make your mother crazy if she knew

how has your life turned out differently than you thought

what was your first paid job and what did you learn from it

Thursday, November 17, 2011

what are the necessary ingredients for you to live a fulfilled life

what were your favourite and least favourite classes in school

what are some of the ways you have celebrated your birthday

what bad habits do you relish and have you ever tried to give them up

if you could choose another career what would it be

which of your friends do you go to for advice, adventure, laughter and acceptance

what are your best excuses for not accomplishing your goals

what was a major turning point in your life and how would your life be if you hadn't taken the other path

what roles do you play in your life

whats most important or valuable in your life

what advice do you have for yourself

what are your favourite places in the world

what did you do after school when you were young

what's your major focus for the next five years

how do you limit yourself

Thursday, March 10, 2011

when you were young what careers interested you

Well, to be honest, I never had an urge or desire to do anything in particular, therefore that is why I am still in a state of flux for what I want to do!  I wish I had used my contacts earlier on in my life to get "a" job in television - not sure exaxtly what, maybe producing, but I think I am too old now to retrain or try a new industry - I did think about teaching several years ago, and thought I was too old then, but again, too many regrets... should really follow my dreams and thoughts instead of just dreaming...

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

what pets have you had through your life and what did you love about each one

The first pet I had was a black and white cat called Toddy - I'm not sure when mum and dad got him, but at least since I was a baby, he died when I was about 8 - he was very spoilt and mum bought him fresh liver and cut up containers of it for his dinners - he was very smart looking being black with white paws and small white crest on his chest and half a moustache.


We had guinea pigs at one stage, I can't remember their names, but I don't think we had them very long.


Our next cat was called Milly - full name Milly Molly Mandy Mildred Millicent Vivien Cleopatra!  I was reading big time and pulled lots of names from books I was reading - she was a very timid cat and eventually got run over - never forgot that day - it was the day I had to go to school with mum to see the Vice Principal after I got suspended for smoking at school!


Our next family pets were a cat called Rocky and a dog called Bandit.  Awesome animals!  Bandit was a Samoyed and staffy cross - a lovable dog, white with a black mask, hence the name.   Rocky was a daredevil cat and nothing fazed him, even when he got run over (I never thought that had happened, he just hopped up on my bed and stayed there, still purring although he had a broken leg!  They both died when I was about 25?


The next chapter in my life with pets was when Dave and I got married, we got a kitten from our friends and she is called Jelly - after Bad Jelly the Witch (or Jelly the Bitch as I call her when she brings in big bush rats in the middle of the night!)   She is still with us and will be celebrating her 14th birthday next month.   We got Taz our dog, a German Shepherd Cross about 4 years ago - gorgeous dog, still mad like a puppy, I don't think she'll ever settle!

what's your idea of a perfect Sunday

My idea of a perfect Sunday is a leisurely breakfast with my family.  Followed by a few hours of reading the papers or my book, or watching a detective TV programme.  Then a large family lunch, perhaps with extended family, followed by a walk in the country or park.   Back home for drinks by the fire, Sunday tea and more detective telly or a nature doco